by MyFirstJerk.com | Dec 27, 2020 | Relationships Advice
If a partner’s reactions leave you worried, confused or afraid to raise an ordinary concern, focus on what is happening and how it affects you. Calling someone emotionally unstable does not explain their behaviour, establish a diagnosis or tell you what you...
by MyFirstJerk.com | Dec 21, 2020 | Relationships Advice
Wanting affection, reassurance or more time together does not make you a problem. Difficulties arise when those wishes become pressure, repeated checking or contact that the other person has not agreed to. It helps to name the specific pattern rather than labelling...
by MyFirstJerk.com | Nov 12, 2020 | Relationships Advice
Dating someone with children involves getting to know a person whose life includes parenting responsibilities. That can affect plans, privacy and the pace of a relationship. It does not mean every family works the same way or that either adult’s needs must go...
by MyFirstJerk.com | Nov 1, 2020 | Relationships Advice
Deciding whether to stay in a relationship can bring together love, disappointment, practical worries and uncertainty about the future. You may care about your partner while questioning the life you are sharing. You do not have to treat affection as a promise to stay,...
by MyFirstJerk.com | Oct 31, 2020 | Relationships Advice
Moving on from heartbreak can mean dealing with two things at once: feelings about the relationship and practical changes to the life you shared. You may miss the daily contact, feel relieved that something difficult has ended or move between those feelings. Neither...