Once you find your real twin flame, your life will never be the same and no relationship will ever compare. This is different than your soulmate and when you reach this partner and find them, it will be like nothing you have ever experienced.
A twin flame relationship means that you love deeper, and you love more than you ever imagined that you could love another person. While you are looking for your twin flame, there are chances that you might run into false twin flames. You might at first think that they are the one and then you realize that they are not truly committed to you and that things are not like they are meant to be.
There are some signs you can pay attention to, so you know if you have met your real twin flame or a false one:
Signs of a False Twin Flame
The first sign is that there are always issues between you and your twin. These issues might be so big that they cause problems, and they stop what you want to do in your future.
When you expect to make a better life, you don’t expect past issues to come up and cause you more pain. If you experience more past life problems and traumas, this is not a true twin flame.
A twin flame is there for you no matter what is going on in life. They will be there when times are hard and when you are fighting and arguing.
A false twin flame will give up the second that things are hard and will want to move on to something else.
If your twin flame does not stand up and protect you in all situations, bit and little, or if they do not offer to help you, they are a false twin flame.
A twin flame brings new light into a relationship and makes it strong and loving. A real twin flame will have the hero instinct which means that they will want to show you how important that you are to them and they will want to be your hero.
You will make them want to be this way because they will want to make you happy, and they will want to focus their life on you.
Focusing on Yourself More than Them
Having a false twin flame will make you begin to look at yourself differently. They will make you see all of your flaws and the problems that you have. They will not help you make good changes inside of your have already began to better yourself and they will want you to help others instead of you.
One of the biggest signs of finding a twin flame is that they will help you to be confident in the relationship and with yourself. When things get hard, they will make you sure that you made the right choices.
A false twin flame will always have you feeling like the relationship could end at any moment and they bring fear.
Stress Over Peace
If you are facing more stress than peace in your life or if your partner makes you feel uncomfortable, this is a false twin flame.
A twin flame will comfort you and give you peace and they will be your best friend.
A real twin flame will come once you have figured out who you are and what you want in your life. They will come when you have already gotten rid of things that you no longer needed.
A false twin flame will come when you are still trying to expand yourself and your soul and being stronger.
When your biorhythms, or the mathematical changes and cycles of your life, line up, this is the time that you will find your twin flame.
If you aren’t ready, then your cycles will run out and you will not be making strong connections in the future.
Everyone is uncertain here and there but if you find that you have more doubt than you do certainty, this can be a problem.
Your twin flame will come to you and bring comfort to you in the relationship, and they will make you strong and steady. They will bring you peace and happiness and take away any doubt that you have.
If you have a twin flame, they will be with you forever. A false twin flame will move on fast without you when things get hard.
You will see that your connection with this person is not strong and you will confirm the doubts that you had about them.
When you don’t know what your partner is going to do, this can bring doubt to your life. If this relationship leaves you wondering what is going to happen next or if it is going to fail, that is your false twin flame.
This can cause you to be unhappy and cause you to see that when they say something, their actions don’t match it.
A real twin flame will want you to be successful and they will want you to be happy.
A false twin flame will be upset when you are successful or if you get better than them at something. They will try to talk you out of making good decisions and make you feel bad for things you do.
If you have different views and visions of the future, this is a big sign that your false twin flame is with you.
You and your twin flame should have the same kind of ideas about the future. You should embrace the future together and be on the same page.
A false twin flame will cause you to make changes in your life and will never let you grow. They will want to go through their awakening on their own.
A real twin flame will be by your side and will embrace you for making changes and for going through life with them.
They Don’t Want to Commit
Meeting your false twin flame can be great at first but if you see that they will not commit to you or they always have a reason not to, this is a big sign that they are false.
A real twin flame will know right from the start that you are the one and they will embrace you and want you in their life.
Because you are so uncertain and doubtful about things, your false twin flame will cause you to feel bad about yourself and to think everything is your fault.
They will leave you disappointed and will not enhance your love or your inner power.
Turning Yourself Around
You will not be able to really turn around your life or to figure out who you are when you are in a false twin relationship.
A false twin will always find something wrong with you and they will never be happy with who you are.
When you feel that your partner is distancing themselves and you are always the one chasing, this is a bad sign. This is behavior of a false twin flame.
They will come into your life just enough to hold you there, but they will always give you a place in the distance.
This person will distance themselves as well and you will have false hope that things are going to work out for you.
They will keep your relationship on a rope and will never take the time to make you closer to them.
A real twin flame will help you to know what they want and what you want. You will know your goals and your ideas, and you will embrace them.
A false twin flame will leave you questioning your purpose and why you are in the relationship.
What if You Have a False Twin Flame?
If you think that you have met a false, twin flame then you need to look at the problems that you are having in your relationship. You may be able to be with them and enjoy them and just overlook certain things.
Or you might decide that you want out of the relationship. This can be confusing because you might feel that you are meant to be with this person. You have to figure out how you are going to make the relationship work.
If they want to be with you, you need to make sure that you are getting your needs and your values met.
Never force yourself to stay in a relationship that you know is not meant for you.
Getting Rid of a False Twin Flame
You will get to the point where you have had enough of your false twin flame. When this happens, you might realize that you need to break up with them. Do this fast and never delay a breakup. Delaying this kind of thing can make you feel more pain and your partner more pain.
When you want to end the relationship, here are some ways you can do it:
- Break up with them in your mind first and realize why you want to do that. Focus on the facts that you know they aren’t meant for you. Be strong.
- Always respect them when you break up but always tell them what you want and stick to it. Make boundaries if you have to.
- Pick a place to meet them. Since you are dating them, you should know places that they like to do. Find a place in public.
- Make sure that you know what you are doing in the breakup. If you live together, have a place to move in mind before you break up with them.
- If you need someone to talk to, ask a friend to be aware of what is going on with your life.
- You will have different feelings and you need to face these.
- Do not be afraid of having emotion. You loved this person, but you just know it is not meant to be.
You have to make sure that you stick to the breakup and you don’t back down. It will be hard for your partner to accept at first but if you are firm, you can make it through it.
Handling the Breakup Reaction
When you go through a breakup, your false twin flame will have strong emotions. They might not have seen it coming or they might not want to break up with you. Some reactions might be:
- They beg you to stay with them. They might be surprised that you are breaking up but remember that you have your reasons to leave.
- They get angry. You have to control your own emotions and stay calm and stick with your choice.
- They might be sad because this is normal with a breakup. Don’t send them mixed signals or make them think you will get back with them.
- They might promise you that they will change. This is how most people react when they break up. They make promises but the promises are rarely kept.
What to do After a Breakup
After you break up with your twin flame, you need to go out and find things to do in your life. Find people that will support you such as your family and your friends. Do not isolate yourself.
Find things you love to do and go do them. Take care of your mind, body, and soul. Do things you need to do such as exercise and diet. Do not stalk your twin flame and stay off of social media.
Understand that you might wonder if you made the right choice or not and this is a natural reaction to any breakup.
Finding Your True Twin Flame
Once you realize you are with a false twin flame and you end the relationship, you might be on a journey to find your real twin flame. This is easy and you can focus on yourself and make sure that you are ready.
Trust Your Intuition
Your intuition will be drawn to your twin flame. Follow your heart and see where it takes you.
You must find yourself before you find your twin flame. Do whatever it takes to make yourself better and to figure out who you are.
Your vibrations have to match your twin flame and so you need to do what you can to get your vibrations up. Be positive and have joy in your life.
Do things that you would normally do. Go out and have fun and be passionate and caring to others. Let the relationship come to you naturally.
Speeding Up Your Twin Flame Meeting
When you are ready to date again, you will want to find your true love. Learn from the last thing that you went through.
Before you start dating again look at yourself and see if you are ready. Consider these things:
- If you want to find your twin flame, you have to be the best you can be and never be false. Your twin flame is looking for you and not someone else.
- You may have to be vulnerable and open up yourself more. This shows you are honest, and you need to face things in life.
- You have to get rid of attachments that you are attached to. The best relationships have some distance.
Once you do these things and deal with the issues in your life, it will be time to find your twin flame. You need to go on dates and go out and have fun. Make sure you tell people what you are looking for.
Go out and meet as many people as you can and make new friends. Eventually you will find your twin flame.
If you set yourself up to meet new people, you will bring energy to yourself and it will be a sign to the universe that you are ready to find your true love.
A twin flame relationship will be loving, and kind and you will eventually find exactly what you are looking for. Never give up.